Kaitlin Vallin-Espinoza Kaitlin Vallin-Espinoza

To the One Who’s Been Called Too Much

You’re not too much. You’ve just been surrounded by people who didn’t know how to hold your bigness.

This one’s for you—the deep feeler, the expressive one, the woman who’s been called dramatic, emotional, intense, or loud.

Let me tell you something: “Too much” is often another word for powerful.
It’s what people say when they’re uncomfortable with your fullness, your softness, or your truth.

You were never too loud. Your emotions weren’t too messy. Your dreams weren’t too big. They were yours. And they’re valid.

I spent years questioning if I needed to shrink, mute myself, or filter my thoughts. I still catch myself second-guessing the volume of my joy or the weight of my sadness.

But I’m done apologizing.

This post is a love letter to that wild, vibrant, beautiful self of yours. Keep taking up space. Keep feeling it all.

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✨ Affirmation: I am not too much—I am just right.

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